Futuristic

Almost 1 year now I have seen people crumbing on the factors called love. And I think this year each day I here some one or other talking about the terminology love, marriage, relationship etc.

There are some of my friends asking “what to do?” queries and some suggesting what not to do and there always and never will be a simple solution. It is just a factor what we need to do is to struggle to get the perfect partner.

Might be this is the age (22 - 29 or so) where all theses relationship, or as I call it as "struggle for settlement" comes up. But the main part is what are you looking for?

There are some people looking for looks, some on money, some dream companion and so on. The imagination varies. But the end to end term where love reaches is marriage.

There is "adapting the technique of searching a guy / girl of your own”, ideally called love marriage and in many other cases it will be the parents searching life partner's by the society procedure called arrange marriage.

Firstly marriage, confusion and a direct unanswered term. If you go and ask people who has already married; none of them will actually know what they r trying to speak. I mean simple question “what’s marriage?” and they are stuck. Even Google Out of the many meaning I have got meanings of marriage as Marriage (Женитьба, Zhenitba or Zhenit'ba) is a play by the Russian writer, Nikolai Gogol, which was first published in 1842. Or Marriage is the debut album from Canadian rock band Attack in Black. I mean "Is Google also puzzled!!”. Or it might be avoiding not discussing much about it.

Any way the topic is always when a girl or guy is all good in her / his placement, the next question is always “so when r u getting married?". Some eventfully get out of it saying “No yer, not now have to earn some money to settle down” or some “I need to do higher studies then " or so on. But the day comes to all. We really can't avoid it.

Then the term Love, M not sure how accurate I am in this, But it’s a very good feeling is what I can say. :) Meaning I found Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. And I actually don’t want to discuss on this much. I might tend to go wrong and as a reader you might be better in it.

Now the term love and marriage, together I mean yesterday I had thought. Lord Shri krishna and Radha is known for being a romantic pair, but they have never married each other. I saw will smith movie one day where whenever he comes near the person he loves the most, an army of devils march up to him and try killing his lover. And if he is hurt, even the gal gets hurt. And there are so many love stories which are famous for everlasting love but never be together. I m talking about those legendary stories like Romeo Juliet, Heer Ranja, which touches the heart of all the people but brings a pain indeed.

It all concludes that you will never get what you actually want. But it doesn’t mean you will not be happy. When we actually think " why you don’t get", there will be some answer behind it. Might be if in any case if you be together, the life might be tough and difficult to manage. Hence people of like poles never lend up together. The point is for example if two good people marry each other they share the good deeds to each other and end up wasting, But if a good guy marries to a bad girl, then it will end up teaching a bad girl how to behave. And the world will soon tend to become good.

That’s the point. That’s what even the nature wants.

For all what I said it might also become reverse like bad deeds might land up. But you know whatever you say, at the end it is always going to be good who win. Even though Tsunami came and killed many people, it’s the silent after it won.

So love or no love, Marriage is a single terminology and it is not related to love or arrange or whatsoever you want it to be called as. There is simply a Marriage which will tend to love if you be there for it. Might be before marring somebody you would have loved him or you might have loved somebody else; but when marriage and its life starts , it is totally different world and you are the one to be there for it.

So don't crumble on the topic of marriage, its not necessary for you to get a perfect match. It necessary for you to make it perfect.

Prathi

PS : Its just a thought to make tens free :). No argument please !!